Everyone has their issues...

Everyone has their issues, some more than others. I’ve always admired those with very few issues. What the heck are issues anyway? An issue can be any problem, concern, dispute; it can be a point one disagrees on; something controversial.

It’s pretty common for us ladies to hear, “Stay away, from that one girl; he’s got big time issues.” Ever heard that? I sure have.

Not everyone has issues, sometimes…we find those people that are just downright nice, happy, cheerful, great sense of humor, relaxed, not a care in the world, not ONE SINGLE, care in the world…another one of those, girls. When they don’t have a single care in the world, they don’t have even one, for example, NOT EVEN BILLS!!

Take a shower; sure…in a day or two….what’s the big deal?? Check the oil in the car?? Oh yeah, sure I did that, about 4 months ago, it was just fine then (and they are smiling the whole time they tell you this).

The checkbook, balance it? Oh honey, don’t worry, the bank does that on its own, they’ll let us know if we’re out of money!! Don’t forget the little notice for the bouncy check place…oh yeah honey I forgot to tell you about that…more like you forgot to tell me about 5 bouncy checks…

Honey Bucket!!!! (As you can see, big time experience talking!!)

Then…there is that ultimate moment… You walk into the room, the restaurant, your class, the store, the meat market, the five and dime, the gas station, where ever…. And you see him…his eyes, (You know it’s all in the eyes…Ladies) and you know…wow, he just paid for his gas, he pays his bills!! He used a debit card to pay for his gas….and it cleared!!! (He has money….who knows what his balance is…it still cleared!!) He’s wiping his hands on a paper tower, so that means he just checked his oil. Oh someone catch me, I’m going to faint. (Of course, I didn’t see him come from the bathroom just before that). Sauntering up to the counter, to pay my own bill (ohhhhhhh, we’re so compatible), I breathe in deeply…and the most delicious scent enters my nostrils……..oh God, he bathes!! He is pleasant with the cashier, smiles, and as I draw closer to him, he turns as I accidentally nudge him, and he smiles….he smiles….no, no issues here.

How often is a situation like this our meter of issues…our assessment and face value prediction of who this person truly is .

Another one of those…

Think on these things…